How to meet a Korean Girls

Although Korea now is a well developed country, but the people still hold their strong culture and discipline in their daily life. For everyone who wish to date with Korean girls, may be a smooth approaching must be applied.

Korean Girls are shy. Some of them even never kiss their boyfriend. Or Korean people don't have so much times as they are absorbed in school, study or working.

Here is a story from one American guy, and met a Korean Girl. Soon, the western guy fall in love with the Korean girl. How the guy can win the girl's heart and love ?

The story also tell us tips and trick how to meet Korean Girl, and do something more than kiss to her. Some information about how to play with Korean Girls. This article is very useful.

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Well, I met this Korean Girl may be a year ago at a party in New Jersey where there were a lot of students from New York University. A friend at work told me about her because I was talking about how I would like to meet a Korean girl for friendship and possibly to learn a little Korean. So my friend arranged for her to call me, and she called me that night. I was very surprised when she did. I had this concept that Korean girls were shy and hard to approach. (Related: Korean beauty Ursula Mayes)


So not knowing what I was in for I headed over to meet her. I came to the door and knocked and she answered. She was a true picture of feminine beauty. None that I have ever seen in my whole life. I was immediately smitten. I came in and sat next to her and we talked. Her English was very good and she seemed very open minded to my conversation.

We went out that night and all went well. I feel very comfortable with her but I could see that she was very excited by my presence and so was I. We talked, we laughed and got along very well. We walked to the bus stop and I asked her, "Have you ever kissed an American man before?" She replied that she has never kissed any man in her life.

I was shocked! I said, "You mean you never had a boyfriend?" She told me that she had a Korean boyfriend but he was too shy for her and she never really was the type of girl that really went after guys. It seems that she was kind of a loner that was too absorbed in school and work. We kissed and that night we went back to her house and we made love.

At this point we fell immediately in love. My concept of Korean girls changed that night. I am shortly heading over to Seoul to pursue her parents. I guess I am lucky because some guys tell me horror stories of being with Korean girls and falling in love and then the girl disappears from sight never to be seen again, particularly once she graduates.

My best advice if you wish to be with a Korean girl is to play it by ear and not expect to jump their bones. Not all Korean girls are as wild as some people say. It is up to them if they wish to continue being with you. I have never been to Korea before or any foreign country for that matter and I know I have a lot to find out about Korea, in particular.

That is why I'm actually going to this girl’s home to stay for a month. So I should consider myself very lucky to set foot in a Korean home to stay. All I can say is that it’s like a game of dice; sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. But when you want to pursue your dream girl, you got to do your best. There is no culture in the world that will not respect a man who will do everything possible for his girl.

Dating Korean Women Rules Culture

Dating in Koreans is a big major today. Different cultures make it diffucult. Like other Asian Cultures, Korean cultures are more traditional and conventional.

Koreans get their ideas of what Americans are like from our films, so some of them are sold on the idea that all Americans are promiscuous. This may be one reason that some Korean men are opposed to Korean women dating western men, but think that they might like to date a western woman. The double standard is alive and well in Korea. If you're a western woman and you want to date Korean men, watch out for signs of this attitude.

Korean Women do not like to show their affection in public. I have hardly ever seen couples holding hands, kissing, and hugging in public spaces. However, I hear that contemporary trends have changed. Because my parents are old-fashioned, they do not like to show affection in public.

In general, Korean women are submissive. They are taught that women should act in a delicate manner. When they smile, for instance, they tend to close their mouth with their hands. I am not sure if it is because they have bad teeth.

When it comes down to physical appearance, I do not think that all Korean women are attractive. I have seen ugly, beautiful and other women with a wide range of physical traits. I have seen a lot of fat, thin Korean women that are married to somewhat attractive Korean men. I think that their relationship is based more than on just physical attraction... And to be honest, I have not questioned what bonds them together, because it is not my business.

The good news is that this attitude is changing fast. Koreans used to be very matter-of-fact about marital sex and rather prudish about premarital sex. That's not so true any more -- Korea is experiencing something not entirely unlike the US sexual revolution of the late 1960s. In 2001, the Chollian Internet Service asked its users what they thought of living together before marriage. A sample comprising Internet users is probably not (yet) representative of the general population. Still, the vast majority -- 85% of men, and 90% of women -- said they thought that premarital cohabitation was a good idea.

Other surveys report that over 10 percent of high school students have had sex. This may seem low compared to the US and most European nations, but it's high for Korea. Maybe because of this, the Korean goverment has recently undertaken an expanded sex education program in the hopes of increasing contraceptive use among young people.

Lastly, yes, Korean men and women hold their national pride. Koreans are proud of their heritage, because there are many aspects of the culture they are proud of. Focus on education, hard-work, Korean food, beautiful geography, topography and comraderie are some aspects that makes me very proud of my heritage

How to date a korean girl

Korea is a major economic growthin East Asia, and now is a leading country in Asia. Many expats and foreigner are moving to Korea, for study, working, and business.

But new country is a new culture. At first it will be difficult for foreigners. But Koreans are pretty tolerant of foreigners who don't know their social codes. What Koreans don't tolerate well is foreigners who won't learn those codes. This usually surprises these westerners, even though they'd probably be some of the first to raise a fuss if a foreigner came to their country and refused to adapt to their culture.

Dating a girl is a serious matter for a new people living in Korea big cities such as Seoul, Busan, or Daegu. A foreigner must know the dating culture in Korean. Koreans don't date, they have relationships. For many cases, after the first date, it isnaturally assumed that the Korean man and the Korean woman are now in a relationship.

The first date is actually a sequel to a set of group dates. It seems rather unusual in Korea, if a woman goes out on a date by herself without her friend. For many people, a woman will naturally bring her best friend along to be the chaperone and the commentator on the man's personality. So a man might be out on a date with just one woman, but he needs to entertain two. Additionally, if a woman shows up on a date without her friend, she is actually considered to be a bit sleazy.


Tips for Dating Korean Girl

1. Be nice to her family and to her best friend, too, but not that nice because then she’ll assume you’re hitting on her friends and that would NOT bode well for you. They like gifts too.

2. Every Korean girl likes expensive brands like Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Dior and Chanel. Remember dates, like the 100th day after you met, the 100th day after you first kissed her, the 100th day.

3. Carry her designer purse for her when she asks you to. As embarrassing as it is, it is less embarrassing than when she starts to whine and starts sobbing

4. Pretend not to notice when she’s stuffing her face. Most Korean girls will pretend that she doesn’t eat that much but once you get closer you will know that a Korean girl’s stomach has no limitations.

5. Korean girls like to feel special. Don’t check out other girls when you’re spending time with her. She has eyes like a hawk and will notice if you so much a glance at another girl. She’ll make a big deal and start a fight with you in the middle of the street.

6. When you go drinking remember that she drinks way more than she’s letting on. Korean girls hardly get drunk but they would like to appear it so you can take care of her.